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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) from the perspective of an EMDR Therapist

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Here is my take answering some FAQs about EMDR Therapy.

Written by owner and therapist at Light Within Wellness, Mary Norman LMFT, NCC, RYT-200

Online EMDR Therapy for Teens and Adults in Florida and South Carolina

1.)     What is EMDR?

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a psychotherapy treatment that is evidenced to relieve distress associated with traumatic memories and experiences. In EMDR treatment, your therapist guides you through systematically reprocessing memories with the use of left right movements or external stimulus. This may take the form of eye movements, tapping on the body, or even sounds in headphones.

 

2.)     What is the point of the eye movements or other external stimulus (also known as bilateral stimulation (BLS))?

BLS is associated with the healing effects of EMDR and there are several theories on why it works! One theory ties into what we know about Rapid Eye Movement (REM) sleep. In REM sleep, eyes dart left to right and brains are hard at work organizing the memories we have made during our waking hours. On many levels, this is what we are doing in EMDR- working to give our brain the space to take what we need from past distressing memories for personal growth and to leave behind what is not useful. The Adaptive Information Processing (AIP) model of EMDR describes that BLS in EMDR provides access to the mind’s natural information processing system. In doing so, the brain is able to take present day wisdom and properly integrate it with the distressing memories so it can be digested in a more healthy, adaptive way.

 

3.)     EMDR sounds intense, why would I do that instead of other types of therapy?

EMDR can be uncomfortable due to the nature of re-visiting past trauma to move through it, but a well-trained EMDR therapist is along for the ride to be sure clients are well equipped to dive into this work. They are also there to offer a sense of safety and containment before, after, and during reprocessing work. EMDR has been shown to offer relief much faster than traditional talk therapy and allows the brain and body to efficiently do what it needs to do to digest trauma and reduce associated symptoms.

4.)     How soon or how long after a traumatic event can you receive EMDR?

EMDR work can be provided at any time in the continuum of traumatic experiences. There are even specific protocols for recent trauma like Recent Traumatic Episode Protocol (R-TEP) or Group Traumatic Episode Protocol (G-TEP).

 

Mary Norman, LMFT, NCC, RYT-200 offers EMDR services, including R-TEP and G-TEP, to teen and adult clients online anywhere in the states of Florida and South Carolina.

Are you hoping to get started with EMDR?

Schedule a free consultation HERE to see if EMDR may be right for you or your teen.

 

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Yoga for Anxiety Relief

So to start, what is yoga? We have all seen or heard of folks getting into wild shapes and posting photos, but what is it really? Yoga is an ancient practice and philosophy that originated in India. Yoga comes from the Sanskrit root word yuj meaning "to unite.” Yoga allows us to connect the mind and body.

There is SOOO much ancient wisdom connected to yoga and it’s not possible to boil it down to a few sentences. Though, I hope to provide a useful introduction here. Simply put, it incorporates asanas (yoga postures), pranayama (breathwork), and meditation. If you’d like to learn more, one of the foundational texts on yoga is, “The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali.”

All that being said, how do you start using yoga to assist with managing feelings of anxiety? Here are two yoga asanas and a breathing pattern you can try today!

This first pose is easy seat. You can find this shape by aligning the spine and sitting upright. You can use the support of a wall or the cushion of a blanket underneath you if necessary. This shape is lovely for centering ourselves when feeling overwhelmed or disconnected. From here, you may engage in some deep breathing to calm the nervous system.


One style of pranayama is Samavritti which strives to create evenness in the inhalations and exhalations. It’s sometimes called “box breathing” in therapy as well. One method of engaging in this pranayama is by breathing in for a count of 4, holding for a count of 4, exhaling for a count of 4, and holding for a count of 4. This sequence of breath is then repeated several times. I always recommend at least 5 cycles of breath!

Another calming yoga shape is legs up the wall. This posture is just as the name suggests, lying with your back on the floor and resting your legs on a wall. In this position, you may also choose to have a blanket, mat, or pillow under the back. In a pinch, no props are necessary! You might also choose to engage in the Samavritti breath to enhance the relaxation effect.

As a yoga instructor, yoga student, and therapist these are practices I use daily and share with my clients. If you try them out for the first time, I’d love to hear about your experience!

Are you someone who is looking for more guidance to address anxiety concerns?

Reach out today and schedule a free consultation to see if starting therapy that integrates yoga at Light Within Wellness, LLC is right for you!

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